For me, choosing bridesmaids was one of the hardest things
about the wedding planning process. Since I grew up in New Jersey, went to
college in Virginia, lived in California for six months, and now live in North
Carolina, my friends are literally all across the country (and world). I don’t have
a close group of girlfriends a la Sex and
the City, and none of my close friends live nearby. I knew that whoever
said yes to be my bridesmaid would have to commit to a big financial obligation.
There were a couple
things that I knew for sure that I wanted:
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Not a huge wedding party. I wanted to keep the
bridesmaid group down to either five or six girls.
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Since my half-sisters are much older than me and
I’m not really close to them, I wouldn’t include them in the wedding party.
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Matt’s older sister Ashley and younger sister
Kasey would be bridesmaids.
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My friend Marielise from South Africa, who now
lives in Los Angeles, would be a bridesmaid.
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My friend Rachel from college would be a
bridesmaid.
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My cousin Lauren would be a bridesmaid.
I was down to a sizeable group of girls, but I didn’t have a
Maid of Honor. I struggled with choosing a Maid of Honor for a few weeks before
I finally decided that Kasey, Matt’s younger sister, would be my Maid of Honor.
I chose her because out of the group of girls, she was the closest (Kasey
attends college about an hour from me) and able to help me the most with
wedding preparations. I also thought it would be a good way to become closer to
one of my future sister-in-laws. J
Now I had to ask the girls.
In the old days, before Pinterest, a bride would take her friend
out for coffee / lunch, or, if she lived far away, would call her up on the
phone, and ask if she wanted to be a bridesmaid. Now, there is not so much an
expectation but an obligation for the bride to give the bridesmaids little “Will
you be my Bridesmaid?” gifts.
There is a lot of wedding stuff on Pinterest, but the “asking
bridesmaid gifts” (not to be confused with the actual bridesmaid gifts) is something
that I think is kind of cute. I ran the idea by my mom to make sure I wasn’t
going too over the top, and she thought it was a good idea.
I found this DIY
tote bag on Pinterest that matched one of the wedding
colors, and went to C. Wonder and
filled up each bag with a monogrammed mug, coasters, and Essie nail polish
(with the idea that they could wear the color on the wedding day). I purchased
these adorable cards from Rifle
Paper Co. with information inside about the date, venue, dresses,
accessories, etc.
I’m so glad that I took the time to make little gifts for
the girls. They all seemed to really like them (Kasey cried when she received
hers), and they were fun to put together. I’m putting together the bridesmaid
gifts right now, and they are pretty awesome, if I do say so myself. I can’t
wait to give them to the girls!
And in case you are wondering, Matt’s groomsmen are his
brother Cooper (and Kasey’s twin) as Best Man, his childhood friend Travis, his
high school friend Michael, his cycling friend Jonathan, and my cousin Frankie
(Lauren’s brother).
Missed a Wedding Wednesday post? Here's our engagement story and choosing the colors.
Missed a Wedding Wednesday post? Here's our engagement story and choosing the colors.
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